World that we living in...far beyond the simplicity of living where in happiness was to have full plate dinner with family...was to visit friends with kids...was to generously welcome guest & treat them as Krishna in Sudama's house...am talking as if i belong to this world for more then 100years & m tired of this generation & their tantrums:P
Well, yes am very much part of this tech savy generation wherein happiness is flaunted on facebooks, thoughts are floated on twitter, anxiety is to see how many people notice you & your lifestyle. I choose to be away from this, without denying the fact that I want to be part of it. Ha...I know its confusing, so the thing is when you see happy post, you do wonder ok chalo I ll put mine as well & then u enjoy all the likes & comments you get on those post. But then when I sit I do think why is it necessary to flaunt my world (which I often do sometimes intentionally sometimes unintentionally). For instance flaunting my highly intelligent brother & its high tech toys. Even he doesn't do all this, then why do I, just to ensure that m very much in this race of high standard of living...blah blah... I dont want to do this. It was better when you worked hard & you were distinguished with the marks you achieved rather than being standing out with the brands you use & parties you attend. Its not that am anti brand but pick something you like irrespective its of which brand..local or Prada..who cares. But its true as soon as somebody tries to flaunt, it triggers me to give back not to show off but just to make other person realise stay grounded...u not the only one...but thats so not correct..how about just laughing in ur heart & smiling on ur face...(so much better option to be followed). Let them be happy in it, you have not taken any oath to teach anybody anything, wherein in thess cases its absolutely not required. I think learning for me here is to do what I enjoy doing most irrespective about if others like it or not, if they like it today & make you happy; tomorrow they will dislike it & make you sad. Its better off to stay away from this gimmick & paparazzi. Guess one of the not so controllable factor of extroversion is inviting more & more people in your life but in this bargain unwanted people come in the picture. My gesture is to constantly learn to be a better & mature human being & I will not step back. I know what areas of improvement is & I ll try my best not to showcase or flaunt or prove anyone anything. The ones who matter know you, value you & love you. Thats enough to share your laughs with them, to throw your tantrums on them, fight as if you want to kill them & then hug as if you will die without them:)
Not to forget, its good to smile, help & be kind to everyone but then not to take this magic wands too much so that its turns unnecessary, not required because then theses gestures will be simply mistreated & wasted.
Alright, confession time over & now wish time...so whats my todays wish...so mother fairy & papa daddy here is ma small wish list:))
Its a new beginning for him, bless them with all the happiness & love
I see him improving & growing as a human, make him the best & kind human
looking forward for small family outing & i mean complete family;) to my paradise land...home sweet home..
Heath for my food luving. my jhagdalu partner, my laughter dose...
Acceptance & peace for my soul friend
Laughter & smile for my office strength
Courage & wisdom to choose right path ( u know for whom:)
Signing off with a thought that I wondered big social parties are fun but they aint for me...wondered that I would enjoy overnight trips & go on another trip but I dont...i hav tech guru in my house but I choose to still be happy while putting flowers in my vase...
Do whatever you want to do man (copyright Salman)
Thank u almighty for being always...